Last weekend I was lil low by the things which were happening around me , and in the process of my thinking my thought wandered back to my beautiful memory lane of the past. For a change this time it was not about my failures and lows, it was all about fun that I used to have with my friends and family , when I was in the college days and when I was at my home.
I was thoughtfully picking the bits of philosophy of our life that- "we live each day for our better future and we work for it so religiously that we forget to cherish the day which we are in, and hundreds of things that is worth living in that particular day.
When we were in college we pray hard for finishing the collage days fast and landing up in a perky good job offer in hand. We just forget to enjoy our freakish fanatic best days that we end up missing badly in rest of our life. And later when we move ahead crossing those lanes, we look back and realize that those were the best days of our life and we could have enjoyed or celebrated it in much better and funnier ways.
When i c my past i realize i haven't valued the most good things in my life and i miss them now terribly.
We used to get annoyed when our mother forces to eat and extra chapati or to have a glass of milk,and now a dayz when we are alone we look around for a hand to feed us with that satisfaction on face as if they are eating for themselves. And we find none.
we all would have picked fights and disputes with our frds during college or school days. At that time when we all were together, we were so busy in making our future and so involved in the rat race that we didn't give enough chance to each others to talk our heart out and enjoy what we could have done. And now when we have time and money we don't have frds sitting next to us,and sharing thoughts.our face glitter when we c the call from our old frds on over cellphones .
I have learn that we should try to live each day to its best , so that we don't have to regret it in future, If we try to give out best towards making it beautiful that day will be worth remembered forever. It goes with saying - "If we take care of the moments, the years will take care of themselves". I feel there is always two ways in making decision, one is to do for the sake of doing and one is to enjoy what we are doing.
We might be facing the worst day of our life but to making it less pain full is always in our hand. Here also we have two choices either we can crib about what went wrong and about situation or we can dilute it by thinking what happens happens for good or for some reason for sure.
Want to end my blog with the saying
“Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.”
Waiting for your comments fellows and fellas .. :)