Independance Day for Me And You

On Last Friday, our India celebrated its 61th freedom anniversary, but what does it means to you and me,we are living in the same way many of us even don't remember that it is the 61 year of our free India, they just take it as one usual holiday.they don't have any feeling what so ever for the great day.and i think i am also belongs to the same category.


On the night of 15 august this thought came to my mind and I'm writing my heart out in this post,for the people like me wait for the great day is coz we are getting one day off from the work off from the normal routine ,so that we can sleep for the more time and watch late night movies ,those who drinks can drink one more day coz they need only reasons to drink weather it is I day or Valentine day or blah blah..

so coming to the topic what it means for me and you,just only to buy flag from the road side vendor and put in our living room,to roam around with friends to watch I day parade on DD (that to even very few people do).

It is not only me and you,the whole society is like that only,you can take media also see all the news channel till 13 midnight they are not bothered about this day they can show all the craps in the news but from 14 midnight to 15 midnight they will show only I day special to generate more money,same with the movie and the Music channel(are they not aware of this day through out the year), you can see only patriotic movies and songs whole day,what this is all about only money business,why we are cursing to them we all are like them we can send thousands of 'sms' on valentine day but on this day no body bothers to send one single message.

OK tell me what you wish that should be the part of independent India in future, corruption free,good environment ,education for all ,equality in society,empowerment to woman all lot more like that ,but these are all lies ,we don't bother for any one until we are living comfortable or luxurious life, we don't even want any change that will disturb our status and which can be in the national interest,how many of us are living for India I think all of us say that yes we are,but you all now that is not true if we will get great opportunity in abroad that will turn us into millionaire then how may of us leave that opportunity and work for the mother country the answer is known to you all .
After 61 year we say that we are independent ,I think we are not we are still slaves that are governed by the polices of the foreign counties ,our whole so call economy is dependent on the other nation if there is depreciation in there currency we get suffered, because we all are working for them and why not the are power full more composed then our country,we had not made any significant development in past 61 year,and that to coz of the mere greediness our politicians and peoples like us that are born to be pampered and to make country weaker and weaker.
People say in spite of cursing to the politicians why cant we go and join the politics,but all of know that if we are not film stars sons or person supported by some party we cant even win the block elections.

But in spite of all these things we can help our country in more ways, by paying taxes on time,following the rules and regulation,coming to promote things which can be in the interest of nation,stop giving bribes to anyone and lot more like that.and most importantly to be a good human being.
I think we should give some preference to nation on our personal interest by choosing little less money in India comparative to foreign countries in our jobs.

let us not only celebrate independence only on 15 Aug ,we have to celebrate it all the day through out the year in our hearts so that at least we don't feel guilt in our last day and our country feel proud of us.
...........Jai hind Jai Bharat.

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Perception and Success

"Perception" it is a small word but I think it plays a very dominating role in moulding the personality of a person.This blog is my simple attempt to utter my opinion on this topic, hope it will help all of you, though I have not implemented most of the things which I'm going to write.

"Perception" in simple terms is the way a person look at the particular situation or thing and depending upon its thinking how he reacts to it,as there is always two ways to deal with every situation either u face it or run away from it.Those who Face the Situation will always come out with the flying colours and became more composed and unflappable,success makes the way for them.
I don't want to elaborate on the success stories of the great men with great perception like Albert Einstein , Bill Gates,and our own Dhirubhai Ambani as de trop things are written about them,these people always faced the situation and got astounding success in there lives.

Perception is based on your past decision if Ur used to think in a +ve manner perception of seeing glass half filled goes on building with every decision u make.for facing adamant situation u need good decision making power and for this u need to remove your mental blockage.
I want to relate mental blockage, decision making and perception using a simple example from our life.

what will you do if you are sitting in a Group and you are asked to "strip off" your clothes in front of every one ,what will you do,what reason will you give for not doing so,you may say that this is something wrong ,our religion doesn't allow us to do so..and so many reason of the same kind,but who had told you that it is wrong ,our society coz we are born and brought up in the same kind of conservative environment and this society always go against the people who think different,if we say that our religion doesn't allow us ....where it is written in any of the religious book, but do we ever think once before getting naked in front of our soul mate or even if we are alone, we can do this easily we never gave a second thought about that.but in front of other we are not able to do such act.

The reason behind that is mental blockage we do what we suppose that is correct we see the world by the eyes of the society, not what we want to do if we remove that snag from our mind we can be more creative in giving solution of any problem.when we remove this snag our mind will think in the +ve way hence our perception changes in the positive manner and we can achieve success in our life.

It is not the single example, I can quote many of them and you can also see many of them happening to you or to the persons around you, but the main thing that I want to highlight is the way you think, your perception it should be always positive you have to think "out of box" to get success in life.

The few things which I think is important in improving our perception in a positive manner are:-

• Accepting Challenges.
• Thinking for "out of box" solution.
• Never Give Up attitude.
• Striving For Perfection.

I think these are too big thing to say for a person of my age.but this is what i feel ...

Waiting For you Valuable comments.