Tuesday, September 28, 2010

One Day-How It Matters In Your Life

Last weekend I was lil low by the things which were happening around me , and in the process of my thinking my thought wandered back to my beautiful memory lane of the past. For a change this time it was not about my failures and lows, it was all about fun that I used to have with my friends and family , when I was in the college days and when I was at my home.


I was thoughtfully picking the bits of philosophy of our life that- "we live each day for our better future and we work for it so religiously that we forget to cherish the day which we are in, and hundreds of things that is worth living in that particular day.


When we were in college we pray hard for finishing the collage days fast and landing up in a perky good job offer in hand. We just forget to enjoy our freakish fanatic best days that we end up missing badly in rest of our life. And later when we move ahead crossing those lanes, we look back and realize that those were the best days of our life and we could have enjoyed or celebrated it in much better and funnier ways.

When i c my past i realize i haven't valued the most good things in my life and i miss them now terribly.

We used to get annoyed when our mother forces to eat and extra chapati or to have a glass of milk,and now a dayz when we are alone we look around for a hand to feed us with that satisfaction on face as if they are eating for themselves. And we find none.


we all would have picked fights and disputes with our frds during college or school days. At that time when we all were together, we were so busy in making our future and so involved in the rat race that we didn't give enough chance to each others to talk our heart out and enjoy what we could have done. And now when we have time and money we don't have frds sitting next to us,and sharing thoughts.our face glitter when we c the call from our old frds on over cellphones .

I have learn that we should try to live each day to its best , so that we don't have to regret it in future, If we try to give out best towards making it beautiful that day will be worth remembered forever. It goes with saying - "If we take care of the moments, the years will take care of themselves". I feel there is always two ways in making decision, one is to do for the sake of doing and one is to enjoy what we are doing.


We might be facing the worst day of our life but to making it less pain full is always in our hand. Here also we have two choices either we can crib about what went wrong and about situation or we can dilute it by thinking what happens happens for good or for some reason for sure.




Want to end my blog with the saying


Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.


Waiting for your comments fellows and fellas .. :)



Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Not just Another Love Story

I am not sure that why am I writing this post, but just want to narrate one story that I read somewhere with my "desi tadka of emotions".

Two souls with but a single thought,two hearts that beat as one --John Keats


Long time back when there was boom in software industry and people from all over India were migrating to a place called Bangalore that is now "namma bangluru" (similar to my migration from Lucknow to my bread butter place (bangluru))

The cynosure of this story, our hero, joins "xyz ltd" from Delhi as a campus batch joinee in the year 2001. He was ecstatic that so many years of struggle, pain and hard work (every campus joinee think like same!!) paid eventually and he got the perfect company to start his career. He thanked god for blessing him all the happiness. During the training program, he performed very well, and he was allocated to projects straight after the training. Sitting on bench in the beginning itself marks your slow growth and is a sign of poor performance in training , so he got another reason to celebrate that he didn’t fell in that slot of people. But destiny never keeps you happy always in go ga ga days. Soon after that day, his life started to become very monotonous. He wakes up every day at the same time..play his i-pod..brush his teeth.. take bath..leave for office.. takes breakfast with frnds.. go to his work..take tea at 11 ..12.30 call for lunch time.. 2.30 again a tea break..then he returns back to home. Then he iron clothes... cook food.. watch tv and hit the sleep. This was his life for almost two years, he had achieved good rapport along with his team member and in the organization. But at the bottom of his heart he was not at all happy, he cry, shouts and get irritated even with small things. The situation raised so high that now he did not even like to do work. There was something missing in his life....ohh see all of u have guessed it right "love". A 4 letter short but means a lot for the persons who really fell in it and just a word for those who say just for saying....this word needs lots of commitment and honesty..i know most of us dont feel that word ...I always found that there are two reasons for not feeling it. One is "we have never got the true love" and second is "we got so many times that now we do not have any feel for this word"...and most of us fall in 1 category coz if we would have got we would have been talking to our soul mates instead of reading this blog. ;) .. lol .. Just kidding guys and girlies.. J

So coming back to story, after two years again one campus batch joined the "xyz ltd" ..yaa your kindergarten teacher did marvelous job in teaching addition ;) , it is in the year 2003. This batch also had a similar kind of training and other stuff. In this batch there is a very intelligent lovely girl, loves metal songs, njoy playing tt ...we will call her "heroin" to refer her in rest of our blog.

one fine day our hero saw this lady playing tt while having lunch, then this process ( of bird watching on her of course !! .. btw what you thought .. he continuously had lunch or she played tt dumbooo !!) continued for a month or so and then suddenly our hero noticed that that girl is also watching him.

After this incidence both of them started seeing each other without talking. One fine day our hero collected all his strength and dared to ping her on communicator (a Microsoft chat tool used mostly in organizations) , the girl was a bit hesitant initially to start the conversation with him on chat, but as all would have felt that she also had some inclination for tour hero...so they continued chatting initially on technical thing ->then to personal ->then to love..Let me clarify now here that they had no such feeling of love for each other at that time. They just hinted for the liking which they have for each other....Slowly they started missing each other that they could not even remain separated for 5 mins. Either they sms, call, chat for full day. Even at night they keep on sms’ing till they are taken over by sleep...

Finally on Thursday they decided to meet for the first time...they waited for all the team mates to leave from the office and then both of them left for cafeteria together and started talking. On the very first day...Our daring hero told her that he already has started liking her. But the girl said that she needs time to think about it but she assured him that she will come to him only in the end…After that they chatted for an hour or so and then our hero dropped the girl to her home...He realized that for the first time in our hero’s life a girl was sitting on his bike, that too his love. They were so close to each other that they could hear each other’s heart beat even and that brought the serenity of love in the air in and around them. Our hero dropped the lady at her home and thanked god for gifting him the lady of his dreams…he felt that he must have done some good deeds in the past coz of them only he is able to get such a nice person as his life partner...our hero was so much in love that he used to forget all the things apart from desperately looking for a beep of msg from her.

Same thing happened on Friday...and the feeling on both the side kept on increasing in the exponential form, they just don't want to be alone any time...they have only one work and that was to think about each other. On one fine Friday they decided that they will come to office on Saturday and spend the whole day together …both of them were very excited to imagine that they will get the complete day for each other ...they stood on the edge of the terrace without saying anything, engrossed in eternity with the love mellowing down with every cool breeze touching them… In spite of that being a very cold day they didn't want to go from there ...they were just smiling and smiling as if there were no worries in this whole world..Coz for them whole world got shrank in soul of two people ...Sooner they realized that its getting late and time to depart. Again our hero dropped her and they chatted again on msg and then they slept...On Sunday they didn't meet. The day was too heavy for them...both of them had deep urge to see each other...But they restrained them self only to msges … By this time our hero had already decided that he will marry only to this girl and asked god to bless him with this lady to partner for his rest of life.

Monday was the day (there one week anniversary) when both of them were very happy that they will see each other after one complete day..during the lunch time they exchanged the smile and went back to their work places...but here comes the twist ...our heroin told her boyfriend (yes this girl has a bf from past 4 years. But there is nothing left between them...any love. It is just a routine exchange of msges about well being and our hero has already been told about him by her. But hero still thinks that this girl will definitely comes to him) without informing our hero that he likes a guy ...and want to be with him for her rest of life time...She asked him to go away from her life completely..But the word destiny is too big to defy.

our heroin asked our hero to meet her right now. They went to the cafeteria and talked where the girl cried a lot, she was unable to hold her emotions. One side there is a guy to whom she met a week ago only and who loves her too much and on another side there is a guy who is with her from 4 year and the memories of 4 year.

She was very confused what to do what not to do. Our hero assured her that he will be with her for rest of his life but don’t know why these words were sounding just words to her, not touching her heart .

They again met in the evening they smiled talked and to our hero it seemed for the first time that this girl is not with her earlier bf. It was so great feeling that couldn’t be confined in words for our hero as if the god has gifted him the best gift of his life, stars can be seen twinkling in their eyes. But destiny had some different plan in his kitty for both of them. The heroin’s phone ringed and guess what ! it was of his bf ,our hero felt extremely bad but he managed to hide his actual emotions and somehow passed a smile at her. He went far from his lady love so that she can talk without any hesitation. Almost 20 min passed, she kept on talking on phone and our hero was busy roaming here and there in the meantime , but every moment was felt lie passing an year for him ( as if he could feel that something wrong will happen soon)… at last time to go home arrived..Our hero somewhere knew by this time that he lost her..But he still believes some miracle will happen and that girl will be with him. Our hero smiled and tried every damn thing possible to make her laugh while going back to home..On this day for the first time our heroin hugged him from back on his bike...that was like a heaven through which they were sailing in that very moment...bike was running on slow speed, chilling wind was blowing on their faces....I think these feeling can never be described in the worlds, they are immortal and those who got a chance to feel it are the most luckiest person on the earth. Finally destination came and our hero dropped her home …but while going back our heroin stopped him... her throat clogged and heart beat rose but finally she told him that "I don't know whether this is the last time or not when we are meeting but she will love him throughout her life ". Our hero could not believe his ears… how this cruel game can be played with him by destiny… and why him only... Every moment he spent with her and the feeling shared with her was running across his mind. He tried his level best to control himself but few drops of tears rolled down from his eyes..The girl went back to her house and our hero cried and cried throughout his drive on the "double road" back to his room.

They did not exchanged any messages on that day ...the whole night was like a burden as if thousands of mountains were placed on top of their hearts ... the girl threw her cell after pulling out the SIM card to cry alone and think deserted . Our hero kept on sending many messages whole night one after the other and pleaded her not to leave him...but none of the msg was delivered. It was a sleepless night for him, he cried to his limit. All seven days was playing in his eyes like a movie without clipping a single moment spent or thought about her. He remembered each and every word they talked about, her beautiful smile that he used to watch always was flashing in his mind .after every few minutes he checked his cell if she replied to any message and when he didn’t find any he called her but it was always found switched off ...In the morning, after a very long night, our hero's cell rang up, he jumped to pick his cell and a smile stroked through his face ...yes it was her message… She just wrote "can u meet me plz in the morning". From the message itself you could have guessed it that the condition of girl was also very bad. Our hero quickly dressed up and went to office to meet her.

our heroin told our hero that she can’t be with him and she has to return back to her bf because they were together for 4 years (I know it sound silly in these dayz that u want to be with the person just for the sake of time u have spent together and not for the compatibility and love u share. But this is destiny and this is truth), our hero tried to be too strong but his heart was full of sorrow and pain. He was thinking whole night about her and at last he broke down as he was unable to control and then he cried like hell. Our hero told her about the last night what happened to him without her replies and how a feeling of him losing her for forever chilled down his spine at night. He pleaded her to be with him, our hero also said that it is very unfair that a person is getting 4 year to get u and one person not even 10 days. She tried to convince him but all went in vain and the girl also started crying. Our hero could see her crying in front of her. They departed with a heavy heart.

Though our hero’s heart was shattered like a mirror but in every piece of his heart he could see that girl

Days passed by in loads of sorrow months like that only. He left that company and went to his native place "Delhi" and joined a different company. He still loves her and his heart waiting for her to come back to his life. He lived life in those seven days. Every moment was like diamond to him and he will preserve them till his life ends and his memory is also engraved in some corner of her heart forever.


Words in love are written by the ink of friendship using letters knows as feelings......it is read on the table of my heart in the light of the little lamp called "love".....n they are kept securely in the in box called soul locked with the key called life forever.....



waiting for ur Comments....


Saturday, August 16, 2008

Independance Day for Me And You

On Last Friday, our India celebrated its 61th freedom anniversary, but what does it means to you and me,we are living in the same way many of us even don't remember that it is the 61 year of our free India, they just take it as one usual holiday.they don't have any feeling what so ever for the great day.and i think i am also belongs to the same category.


On the night of 15 august this thought came to my mind and I'm writing my heart out in this post,for the people like me wait for the great day is coz we are getting one day off from the work off from the normal routine ,so that we can sleep for the more time and watch late night movies ,those who drinks can drink one more day coz they need only reasons to drink weather it is I day or Valentine day or blah blah..

so coming to the topic what it means for me and you,just only to buy flag from the road side vendor and put in our living room,to roam around with friends to watch I day parade on DD (that to even very few people do).

It is not only me and you,the whole society is like that only,you can take media also see all the news channel till 13 midnight they are not bothered about this day they can show all the craps in the news but from 14 midnight to 15 midnight they will show only I day special to generate more money,same with the movie and the Music channel(are they not aware of this day through out the year), you can see only patriotic movies and songs whole day,what this is all about only money business,why we are cursing to them we all are like them we can send thousands of 'sms' on valentine day but on this day no body bothers to send one single message.

OK tell me what you wish that should be the part of independent India in future, corruption free,good environment ,education for all ,equality in society,empowerment to woman all lot more like that ,but these are all lies ,we don't bother for any one until we are living comfortable or luxurious life, we don't even want any change that will disturb our status and which can be in the national interest,how many of us are living for India I think all of us say that yes we are,but you all now that is not true if we will get great opportunity in abroad that will turn us into millionaire then how may of us leave that opportunity and work for the mother country the answer is known to you all .
After 61 year we say that we are independent ,I think we are not we are still slaves that are governed by the polices of the foreign counties ,our whole so call economy is dependent on the other nation if there is depreciation in there currency we get suffered, because we all are working for them and why not the are power full more composed then our country,we had not made any significant development in past 61 year,and that to coz of the mere greediness our politicians and peoples like us that are born to be pampered and to make country weaker and weaker.
People say in spite of cursing to the politicians why cant we go and join the politics,but all of know that if we are not film stars sons or person supported by some party we cant even win the block elections.

But in spite of all these things we can help our country in more ways, by paying taxes on time,following the rules and regulation,coming to promote things which can be in the interest of nation,stop giving bribes to anyone and lot more like that.and most importantly to be a good human being.
I think we should give some preference to nation on our personal interest by choosing little less money in India comparative to foreign countries in our jobs.

let us not only celebrate independence only on 15 Aug ,we have to celebrate it all the day through out the year in our hearts so that at least we don't feel guilt in our last day and our country feel proud of us.
...........Jai hind Jai Bharat.

waiting for your valuable comment ....

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Perception and Success

"Perception" it is a small word but I think it plays a very dominating role in moulding the personality of a person.This blog is my simple attempt to utter my opinion on this topic, hope it will help all of you, though I have not implemented most of the things which I'm going to write.

"Perception" in simple terms is the way a person look at the particular situation or thing and depending upon its thinking how he reacts to it,as there is always two ways to deal with every situation either u face it or run away from it.Those who Face the Situation will always come out with the flying colours and became more composed and unflappable,success makes the way for them.
I don't want to elaborate on the success stories of the great men with great perception like Albert Einstein , Bill Gates,and our own Dhirubhai Ambani as de trop things are written about them,these people always faced the situation and got astounding success in there lives.

Perception is based on your past decision if Ur used to think in a +ve manner perception of seeing glass half filled goes on building with every decision u make.for facing adamant situation u need good decision making power and for this u need to remove your mental blockage.
I want to relate mental blockage, decision making and perception using a simple example from our life.

what will you do if you are sitting in a Group and you are asked to "strip off" your clothes in front of every one ,what will you do,what reason will you give for not doing so,you may say that this is something wrong ,our religion doesn't allow us to do so..and so many reason of the same kind,but who had told you that it is wrong ,our society coz we are born and brought up in the same kind of conservative environment and this society always go against the people who think different,if we say that our religion doesn't allow us ....where it is written in any of the religious book, but do we ever think once before getting naked in front of our soul mate or even if we are alone, we can do this easily we never gave a second thought about that.but in front of other we are not able to do such act.
The reason behind that is mental blockage we do what we suppose that is correct we see the world by the eyes of the society, not what we want to do if we remove that snag from our mind we can be more creative in giving solution of any problem.when we remove this snag our mind will think in the +ve way hence our perception changes in the positive manner and we can achieve success in our life.

It is not the single example, I can quote many of them and you can also see many of them happening to you or to the persons around you, but the main thing that I want to highlight is the way you think, your perception it should be always positive you have to think "out of box" to get success in life.

The few things which I think is important in improving our perception in a positive manner are:-
  • Accepting Challenges.
  • Thinking for "out of box" solution.
  • Never Give Up attitude.
  • Striving For Perfection.

I think these are too big thing to say for a person of my age.but this is what i feel ...

Waiting For you Valuable comments.

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

LoNeLy ...I Am So LoneLy...!!


You must be thinking that I am singing the famous song from the Akon's album lonely but it is not like that Today most of us are prone to the problem of "loneliness", it means that you have so many people near by but still you are alone ,u have so much to share but with whom ? you find no one in the crowd to share your feeling,all the day you keep on discussing about technical things,about your works, about studies but when it come to speak your heart out to some one you will not find any face....in this article we will discuss about this problem,symptoms ,reason and probable solution of this problem.


Obscure,lonesome,desolate,are the few synonyms of the word "Lonely" this 6 letter word is playing a major role in the so called "Modern life style" in which most of us live alone or with room mates, far away from our family for earning Money.we make lost of friends at work place have fun with them but these are the side effect of the problem of loneliness as the problem increases you try to keep running from it and avoiding it by giving less time to our self and make us busy in one thing or other so that we can escape from the Dark cover of loneliness.


How many times it happens to you that you are crowded by friends and you are not listening to them you are thinking of some thing else,you want to sit alone and do not want to talk to any one,how many times you cried alone,how many times you want to tell some thing to your friend and then you stop,how many time you walk in the rain alone..these are some of the symptoms of the problem.

The main reason for this problem is our life style in which we make friends and most of them are for some purpose,and you can't build so much trust on them so that you can tell them your inner thoughts and feelings,then most of us try to find out partners (girl friend) to whom the can say what they want but in today's world that to even not long lasting and the break off result in increasing the feeling of loneliness,and this come out in the form of anger and mental pressure,you try to keep yourself busy in something and which in turn blemish your health and can lead to serious consequences .

we can avoid this feeling by doing certain things
  1. Do mediation.
  2. Do prayer:-As that will help you to say your thoughts to super power full god.
  3. Trust your friend that they can help you or at least hear your problem carefully.
  4. and last but not the least Do exercise so that excess of toxic substance get removed from your body and you will remain active

please add your comments ..........

Monday, October 29, 2007

Girlfriend V/S No GirlFriend




This Article is a result of my observation on my friends and there friends and also from the stories which are true and which are narrated in the long journeys by various persons..the resemblance to any living Being is quite possible ...




As the topic of the article suggest that there is a comparison in the Lifestyle if u have a girlfriend and LifeStyle Without having GirlFriend...tell u frankly both person are not happy in there current situation..both want to go on the other side of the river...let me take this topic in two parts and we will discuss pros and cons of both the Life Style ...and from there You can chose which kinda of life you want.....




  1. Life With GirlFriend:- For most Of the bachelors it is kind of dream to have a girlfriend with Whom they can roam around and have fun ....but in reality it is not true at least in the long run initially up to two or three month or at max 5 months both of them (so called soul mates ) have fun, they share there feelings and can talk whole day on the useless topic which typically contain "about her family","What he/she likes","about the life which they will spend after marriage" and both of them love to here all the romantic sound and visualizing them self as the actor and actress of that song, for them the whole world is zipped in two human being or rather I should say for them they are on like "Do zism ek jaan hai hum"..but as time progresses they started to have problems with the things which they earlier used to love ,then they started to fight over small-2 matters like"tum us ladki ko kyu dekh rahe they","tumne mujhe aaj 10 baje call kyu nahi kiya","pehle tum mujhe kitna time dete they"....and tons of like that...after an year or so if the relation continues of course they can talk whole night sorry i meant to say fight whole night..and when they keep phone down they say most important word "i love you" they say only (exceptions are every where)doesn't meant it.and when they meet once or twice in a week they solve there miss understanding and while going home same cycle get started.one thing more you cannot enjoy with your friend because you will be on phone most of the time (obviously fighting)...so this is some what glimpse of the so called "life with Girlfriend"

  2. Life Without GirlFriend:-It is the dream of every committed guy..because for them the word freedom on any thing that is staring with the letter "free" are washed from there dictionary ...coming to the lifestyle of free person ..they can do what they want,they are not answerable to any person for not calling at a particular time, they can booze till late night..can party with friend can watch any "chicks" in any mall or roads....they need not to plan for any thing..they can dress in most stupid way if they are going out with there friend..is short total "Masti"...for them life is like "Cigarette ke dhuye ka challa bana ke ..."also they are less prone to the radiation emitted by the cellphone ...so that means they have longer lifespan...but this is the only brighter side of being "lonely"..there are some problems with that lifestyle also....single people cannot share there felling (hidden ones) with there pals ...so to remove tension they drink and smoke ...they cannot do any thing if they have no friends around....that's why they tend to sleep more..there life is some what monotonous...and the life without girlfriend , for men its like a BOLT FROM BLUE CONDITION In Greek we use to tell "OMNIA E VIVUM ET NOS CEDAMOUS AMOURI"It means "LOVE OVERCOMES ALL LET US TOO YIELD TO LOVE"...

So from the above glimpses of both the life style you can decide what you want to choose...waise mera maana hai..."girl friend ka ladoo jo khaye wo pachtaye jo na kaahye wo bhi pachtaye ..to isse acchahai khaa ke pachtaya jaye yaar..."

Last but not the least i want to conclude in three lines

LOVING TOGETHER IS THE BEGINNING

KEEPING LOVE IS THE PROGRESS

WORKING IN IT MAKES MADE FOR EACH OTHER.........

babye for now as its 6.30 now..and had to leave for the cab....waiting for your comments

keep coding....

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Life oF Software EngineerS!


By reading the post name ..u have guessed it that it is about the Life oF most Of the Person Around Us...ya you are correct ..but In this post Im Describing my Feeling and Understanding about this Man made Creature...i am taking the whole Gener for describing its characteristic..these Creature are located all around the globe..specially in the Metros ..and So Called IT cities ..like Bangalore,pune...etc, This Breed contains all Types of Element means(So called human being..)like Male,Female...and that to from Various regions..they come to this Profession to Full Fill there Dremz...And ready to compromise all the things for chasing there Dremz...They lived in the group in 1 bhk or 2Bhk rooms so that they can save money(which they thought they are doing ....) and by doing so they compromise there Privacy and have to adjust according to the creature with whom they were living but from out side they keep intact there Smiling Mask..im not at all saying that it is not beneficial to live in Group..it is beneficial as..u need some one to hear ur shit stuff..which mostly is about your PM(A senior Creature in this Breed...)and About your coding Stuff....and iF time Permits then About The most Interesting Talks "About Chicks.. :)" .

Now Coming to the Lifestyle Or work Routine oF this Creature this can be divided into two broad Categories :- 1)WeekDays 2)Weekends,Lets Take First One First..i.e.weekdays ..that i from Monday to Friday(The MOst awaited day) they mostly Get Up at 7 in the morning Do Routine jobs and then headed to near by cab PickUp points with ipod or music phone earphone in there ear...they Reached office at 9.30. go to there Working Area So called "cabins" place there bags then head towards cafeteria(The Fav Place) had breakfast and then return back to there "Cabins" and start waiting For Lunch time...in between they most Important task of checking and forwarding Mails,and if time permits little bit of Work"in short Coding " and they Went off for the lunch around "1 pm " they UsuallY come Back To work Around 2.30 or 2.15 and then wait for the evening i.e for 6.30 coz all the cabs will leave around this time..and in between this time they do meetings with PL,PM hear about the professional way of doing work(which they will never understood) and do Little work,listing music ,chat with there pal..at 6.15 they wind up there work and head towards cab..and reach there So called home..from Here On till this creature sleeps he had to do lost of things from Eating,Watching T.V and talking with his girlfrd or boyfrd(if they have purelly conditional) and ya also to its parents they went to sleep around 11.30 ..and same Monotonus routine continues till Friday Evening...On this evening these creature goes to Various Hangouts Places in the cities Drink Bear,and wine..and enjoy (they thought they were doing) and come late at night to there Respective homes...nOw coming to 2nd Part that is Weekends that is from friday Night to Sunday Night...on saturdayz They Plan lost of thing but most of them ends in Planning as they wake up in the saturday Noon around 2 pm and have serious hangover...so after eating they went back to sleep Again...Then They wake up in the Evening head towars there Fav Place That Include bar,Pubs,And ofcourse Malls..where they can see "HotChiks " and can increase there Frustation ..and some of the common Comments that You Can here From There Mouth are..."kya maal hai ","meri hi kismat kharab hai ki hume aisi nahi milti","Is bandar ko mil Sakti hai hume nahi ","Aaj kal Ladkiyo Ka taste hi kharab Ho gaya hai"...and lot more like that..those few Which have GirlFriend or boy Friend they meet on these dayz "they Fight" and "Fight" and at last say that they love each other(they only say it dosent mean it ..for most of the people ..exceptions are every where) on Sunday They Wash there Clothes Watch TV..and throw pjs on there Room mates and expecting them to laugh...and they Went Of to Sleep around the normal time ..and then the Cycle continues...and in the Month End The End Up In borrowing money from there Mate.. I am Stopping here coz its lunch time[:)] I may Missed out SomeThing please Add them as Your Comments..keep Coding..ha ha