You must be thinking that I am singing the famous song from the Akon's album lonely but it is not like that Today most of us are prone to the problem of "loneliness", it means that you have so many people near by but still you are alone ,u have so much to share but with whom ? you find no one in the crowd to share your feeling,all the day you keep on discussing about technical things,about your works, about studies but when it come to speak your heart out to some one you will not find any face....in this article we will discuss about this problem,symptoms ,reason and probable solution of this problem.
Obscure,lonesome,desolate,are the few synonyms of the word "Lonely" this 6 letter word is playing a major role in the so called "Modern life style" in which most of us live alone or with room mates, far away from our family for earning Money.we make lost of friends at work place have fun with them but these are the side effect of the problem of loneliness as the problem increases you try to keep running from it and avoiding it by giving less time to our self and make us busy in one thing or other so that we can escape from the Dark cover of loneliness.
How many times it happens to you that you are crowded by friends and you are not listening to them you are thinking of some thing else,you want to sit alone and do not want to talk to any one,how many times you cried alone,how many times you want to tell some thing to your friend and then you stop,how many time you walk in the rain alone..these are some of the symptoms of the problem.
The main reason for this problem is our life style in which we make friends and most of them are for some purpose,and you can't build so much trust on them so that you can tell them your inner thoughts and feelings,then most of us try to find out partners (girl friend) to whom the can say what they want but in today's world that to even not long lasting and the break off result in increasing the feeling of loneliness,and this come out in the form of anger and mental pressure,you try to keep yourself busy in something and which in turn blemish your health and can lead to serious consequences .
we can avoid this feeling by doing certain things
- Do mediation.
- Do prayer:-As that will help you to say your thoughts to super power full god.
- Trust your friend that they can help you or at least hear your problem carefully.
- and last but not the least Do exercise so that excess of toxic substance get removed from your body and you will remain active
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bhai tum itne serious kabse ho gaye ?? .... anyhow what you have wrote is 100% true ... really good
You are right man....Loneliness has become an important part of our lives...not becoz we dont have friends but becoz we dont have trust in them...
the best way to get rid of this is to find a friend in yourself and also do friendship with your parents and ur siblings..this is really the best way out...
Becoz faltu bakwas ya bakar ke liye to friends(so called friends) are enough..but when u want to speak ur heart, no one is more liable than ur own family....
Think about it...
I might not be the right person to comment on this agony, as it was never hardy perennial in my case; It was temporal at times and left me within a matter of few minutes, or hours for that matter :). The thing worth noticing is that the way you expurgate your thoughts on your blogs, you have developed a kinship with your blog and apparantly it lures me to come back here, and never leave perplexed. Keep the good spirits high, I promise to be an avid reader of your blogs.
you are absolutely right....
but right now you are in different stage of your life(professionalism).....so just try to change yourself point of view.....
See this gfs are rubbish things & they never solve your these kind of problems...its better for u to trust on your frnds as I am......
It takes time bur I am sure it works
Milte hai Gym me
"Loneliness" ki Maa ka B***a, whenever feel lonely Booz it out with 3 pegs of Royal Stags, trust me its guranteed way of getting rid of loneleliness :)
That was on lighter side, yeah its true for all of us, for earnining our bread and butter we have came long way or rather away from our sweet home. "Choona cha assman per muthhi bhar tanahi ayi hath main". Its all depends on our prsepective how we see the thing either be lonely and sad or make this "loneliness" our best friend and strive for better future.One of best way to kill loneliness is to read spritual books....atleast kuch sikhe ge to nahi kam se kam MBA ki tayari to ho jayegi :)
Amitabh baba ne kya sahi kaha hai"Kabhi kabhi main aur meri tanahi bat karte hai..." So keep talking and motivating your self in your lonely moments kya pata ki KAL HUM HO NA HO..
Awesome man!!
But what bout atheists dude?
Y din ya mention bout places like discs and pubs?!! ;)
jus kiddin guys, drinkin' and smokin' are injurious to health..
Good goin, keep it up dude!!
hello ji..............
wat happened.....r u felling lk ds.......pata hi nahin tha.pahle batana tha na;)
hmmmmmmmmmm.....koi na.ab bataya to sare jahan main pata hi chal gaya..............
good article.....:)
keep it up........
its really good , looks like came from heart , but i dint know that you also feel so . but at the same time you have the idea to get out of this and those are really good idea .
and the ultimate truth is that watevever happens , happens for our goodness , in the short term it is hard to understand but we have to console ourlselves like this.
its good to read such article as it touches our heart , but i dint know that even u feel like so. anyway u also have idea to get out of it , my well wishes are with u.:)
dats pretty true buddy...well 1 thin i cud say if u have nethin to say/share jus look back to seat no 202 :) ....liked ur thoughts very much..keep it up..
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