LoNeLy ...I Am So LoneLy...!!

You must be thinking that I am singing the famous song from the Akon's album lonely but it is not like that Today most of us are prone to the problem of "loneliness", it means that you have so many people near by but still you are alone ,u have so much to share but with whom ? you find no one in the crowd to share your feeling,all the day you keep on discussing about technical things,about your works, about studies but when it come to speak your heart out to some one you will not find any face....in this article we will discuss about this problem,symptoms ,reason and probable solution of this problem.


Obscure,lonesome,desolate,are the few synonyms of the word "Lonely" this 6 letter word is playing a major role in the so called "Modern life style" in which most of us live alone or with room mates, far away from our family for earning Money.we make lost of friends at work place have fun with them but these are the side effect of the problem of loneliness as the problem increases you try to keep running from it and avoiding it by giving less time to our self and make us busy in one thing or other so that we can escape from the Dark cover of loneliness.


How many times it happens to you that you are crowded by friends and you are not listening to them you are thinking of some thing else,you want to sit alone and do not want to talk to any one,how many times you cried alone,how many times you want to tell some thing to your friend and then you stop,how many time you walk in the rain alone..these are some of the symptoms of the problem.

The main reason for this problem is our life style in which we make friends and most of them are for some purpose,and you can't build so much trust on them so that you can tell them your inner thoughts and feelings,then most of us try to find out partners (girl friend) to whom the can say what they want but in today's world that to even not long lasting and the break off result in increasing the feeling of loneliness,and this come out in the form of anger and mental pressure,you try to keep yourself busy in something and which in turn blemish your health and can lead to serious consequences .

we can avoid this feeling by doing certain things

1. Do mediation.
2. Do prayer:-As that will help you to say your thoughts to super power full god.
3. Trust your friend that they can help you or at least hear your problem carefully.
4. and last but not the least Do exercise so that excess of toxic substance get removed from your body and you will remain active

please add your comments ..........

Girlfriend V/S No GirlFriend

This Article is a result of my observation on my friends and there friends and also from the stories which are true and which are narrated in the long journeys by various persons..the resemblance to any living Being is quite possible ...

As the topic of the article suggest that there is a comparison in the Lifestyle if u have a girlfriend and LifeStyle Without having GirlFriend...tell u frankly both person are not happy in there current situation..both want to go on the other side of the river...let me take this topic in two parts and we will discuss pros and cons of both the Life Style ...and from there You can chose which kinda of life you want.....

1. Life With GirlFriend:- For most Of the bachelors it is kind of dream to have a girlfriend with Whom they can roam around and have fun ....but in reality it is not true at least in the long run initially up to two or three month or at max 5 months both of them (so called soul mates ) have fun, they share there feelings and can talk whole day on the useless topic which typically contain "about her family","What he/she likes","about the life which they will spend after marriage" and both of them love to here all the romantic sound and visualizing them self as the actor and actress of that song, for them the whole world is zipped in two human being or rather I should say for them they are on like "Do zism ek jaan hai hum"..but as time progresses they started to have problems with the things which they earlier used to love ,then they started to fight over small-2 matters like"tum us ladki ko kyu dekh rahe they","tumne mujhe aaj 10 baje call kyu nahi kiya","pehle tum mujhe kitna time dete they"....and tons of like that...after an year or so if the relation continues of course they can talk whole night sorry i meant to say fight whole night..and when they keep phone down they say most important word "i love you" they say only (exceptions are every where)doesn't meant it.and when they meet once or twice in a week they solve there miss understanding and while going home same cycle get started.one thing more you cannot enjoy with your friend because you will be on phone most of the time (obviously fighting)...so this is some what glimpse of the so called "life with Girlfriend"


2. Life Without GirlFriend:-It is the dream of every committed guy..because for them the word freedom on any thing that is staring with the letter "free" are washed from there dictionary ...coming to the lifestyle of free person ..they can do what they want,they are not answerable to any person for not calling at a particular time, they can booze till late night..can party with friend can watch any "chicks" in any mall or roads....they need not to plan for any thing..they can dress in most stupid way if they are going out with there friend..is short total "Masti"...for them life is like "Cigarette ke dhuye ka challa bana ke ..."also they are less prone to the radiation emitted by the cellphone ...so that means they have longer lifespan...but this is the only brighter side of being "lonely"..there are some problems with that lifestyle also....single people cannot share there felling (hidden ones) with there pals ...so to remove tension they drink and smoke ...they cannot do any thing if they have no friends around....that's why they tend to sleep more..there life is some what monotonous...and the life without girlfriend , for men its like a BOLT FROM BLUE CONDITION In Greek we use to tell "OMNIA E VIVUM ET NOS CEDAMOUS AMOURI"It means "LOVE OVERCOMES ALL LET US TOO YIELD TO LOVE"...

So from the above glimpses of both the life style you can decide what you want to choose...waise mera maana hai..."girl friend ka ladoo jo khaye wo pachtaye jo na kaahye wo bhi pachtaye ..to isse acchahai khaa ke pachtaya jaye yaar..."

Last but not the least i want to conclude in three lines

LOVING TOGETHER IS THE BEGINNING

KEEPING LOVE IS THE PROGRESS

WORKING IN IT MAKES MADE FOR EACH OTHER.........

babye for now as its 6.30 now..and had to leave for the cab....waiting for your comments

keep coding....

Life oF Software EngineerS!

By reading the post name ..u have guessed it that it is about the Life oF most Of the Person Around Us...ya you are correct ..but In this post Im Describing my Feeling and Understanding about this Man made Creature...i am taking the whole Gener for describing its characteristic..these Creature are located all around the globe..specially in the Metros ..and So Called IT cities ..like Bangalore,pune...etc, This Breed contains all Types of Element means(So called human being..)like Male,Female...and that to from Various regions..they come to this Profession to Full Fill there Dremz...And ready to compromise all the things for chasing there Dremz...They lived in the group in 1 bhk or 2Bhk rooms so that they can save money(which they thought they are doing ....) and by doing so they compromise there Privacy and have to adjust according to the creature with whom they were living but from out side they keep intact there Smiling Mask..im not at all saying that it is not beneficial to live in Group..it is beneficial as..u need some one to hear ur shit stuff..which mostly is about your PM(A senior Creature in this Breed...)and About your coding Stuff....and iF time Permits then About The most Interesting Talks "About Chicks.. :)" .

Now Coming to the Lifestyle Or work Routine oF this Creature this can be divided into two broad Categories :- 1)WeekDays 2)Weekends,Lets Take First One First..i.e.weekdays ..that i from Monday to Friday(The MOst awaited day) they mostly Get Up at 7 in the morning Do Routine jobs and then headed to near by cab PickUp points with ipod or music phone earphone in there ear...they Reached office at 9.30. go to there Working Area So called "cabins" place there bags then head towards cafeteria(The Fav Place) had breakfast and then return back to there "Cabins" and start waiting For Lunch time...in between they most Important task of checking and forwarding Mails,and if time permits little bit of Work"in short Coding " and they Went off for the lunch around "1 pm " they UsuallY come Back To work Around 2.30 or 2.15 and then wait for the evening i.e for 6.30 coz all the cabs will leave around this time..and in between this time they do meetings with PL,PM hear about the professional way of doing work(which they will never understood) and do Little work,listing music ,chat with there pal..at 6.15 they wind up there work and head towards cab..and reach there So called home..from Here On till this creature sleeps he had to do lost of things from Eating,Watching T.V and talking with his girlfrd or boyfrd(if they have purelly conditional) and ya also to its parents they went to sleep around 11.30 ..and same Monotonus routine continues till Friday Evening...On this evening these creature goes to Various Hangouts Places in the cities Drink Bear,and wine..and enjoy (they thought they were doing) and come late at night to there Respective homes...nOw coming to 2nd Part that is Weekends that is from friday Night to Sunday Night...on saturdayz They Plan lost of thing but most of them ends in Planning as they wake up in the saturday Noon around 2 pm and have serious hangover...so after eating they went back to sleep Again...Then They wake up in the Evening head towars there Fav Place That Include bar,Pubs,And ofcourse Malls..where they can see "HotChiks " and can increase there Frustation ..and some of the common Comments that You Can here From There Mouth are..."kya maal hai ","meri hi kismat kharab hai ki hume aisi nahi milti","Is bandar ko mil Sakti hai hume nahi ","Aaj kal Ladkiyo Ka taste hi kharab Ho gaya hai"...and lot more like that..those few Which have GirlFriend or boy Friend they meet on these dayz "they Fight" and "Fight" and at last say that they love each other(they only say it dosent mean it ..for most of the people ..exceptions are every where) on Sunday They Wash there Clothes Watch TV..and throw pjs on there Room mates and expecting them to laugh...and they Went Of to Sleep around the normal time ..and then the Cycle continues...and in the Month End The End Up In borrowing money from there Mate.. I am Stopping here coz its lunch time[:)] I may Missed out SomeThing please Add them as Your Comments..keep Coding..ha ha