This Article is a result of my observation on my friends and there friends and also from the stories which are true and which are narrated in the long journeys by various persons..the resemblance to any living Being is quite possible ...
As the topic of the article suggest that there is a comparison in the Lifestyle if u have a girlfriend and LifeStyle Without having GirlFriend...tell u frankly both person are not happy in there current situation..both want to go on the other side of the river...let me take this topic in two parts and we will discuss pros and cons of both the Life Style ...and from there You can chose which kinda of life you want.....
- Life With GirlFriend:- For most Of the bachelors it is kind of dream to have a girlfriend with Whom they can roam around and have fun ....but in reality it is not true at least in the long run initially up to two or three month or at max 5 months both of them (so called soul mates ) have fun, they share there feelings and can talk whole day on the useless topic which typically contain "about her family","What he/she likes","about the life which they will spend after marriage" and both of them love to here all the romantic sound and visualizing them self as the actor and actress of that song, for them the whole world is zipped in two human being or rather I should say for them they are on like "Do zism ek jaan hai hum"..but as time progresses they started to have problems with the things which they earlier used to love ,then they started to fight over small-2 matters like"tum us ladki ko kyu dekh rahe they","tumne mujhe aaj 10 baje call kyu nahi kiya","pehle tum mujhe kitna time dete they"....and tons of like that...after an year or so if the relation continues of course they can talk whole night sorry i meant to say fight whole night..and when they keep phone down they say most important word "i love you" they say only (exceptions are every where)doesn't meant it.and when they meet once or twice in a week they solve there miss understanding and while going home same cycle get started.one thing more you cannot enjoy with your friend because you will be on phone most of the time (obviously fighting)...so this is some what glimpse of the so called "life with Girlfriend"
- Life Without GirlFriend:-It is the dream of every committed guy..because for them the word freedom on any thing that is staring with the letter "free" are washed from there dictionary ...coming to the lifestyle of free person ..they can do what they want,they are not answerable to any person for not calling at a particular time, they can booze till late night..can party with friend can watch any "chicks" in any mall or roads....they need not to plan for any thing..they can dress in most stupid way if they are going out with there friend..is short total "Masti"...for them life is like "Cigarette ke dhuye ka challa bana ke ..."also they are less prone to the radiation emitted by the cellphone ...so that means they have longer lifespan...but this is the only brighter side of being "lonely"..there are some problems with that lifestyle also....single people cannot share there felling (hidden ones) with there pals ...so to remove tension they drink and smoke ...they cannot do any thing if they have no friends around....that's why they tend to sleep more..there life is some what monotonous...and the life without girlfriend , for men its like a BOLT FROM BLUE CONDITION In Greek we use to tell "OMNIA E VIVUM ET NOS CEDAMOUS AMOURI"It means "LOVE OVERCOMES ALL LET US TOO YIELD TO LOVE"...
So from the above glimpses of both the life style you can decide what you want to choose...waise mera maana hai..."girl friend ka ladoo jo khaye wo pachtaye jo na kaahye wo bhi pachtaye ..to isse acchahai khaa ke pachtaya jaye yaar..."
Last but not the least i want to conclude in three lines
LOVING TOGETHER IS THE BEGINNING
KEEPING LOVE IS THE PROGRESS
WORKING IN IT MAKES MADE FOR EACH OTHER.........
babye for now as its 6.30 now..and had to leave for the cab....waiting for your comments
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5 comments:
yaar.. its really nice but.. clearly anyone can detect that tum girlfriend-less ho... coz agar true luv ho to yeh sab restrictions nahi lagte.. n if there r some change, it is for gud purpose only.. Infact u both n even in group can enjoy more.(U will realise it after u get your true luv)
Bhai likha to thik hai par ye bata tu kitne so called LADDOO khake pachtaya hai ???? yaar it is not about havin GF or BF. It is about sharing the happiest moments of life (Ofcourse initially in relationship ;-) ). It is like sharing true part of urself, being loyal to someone, feeling butterflies in stomach when u think of someone special. yaar when tht person is not there u still remember sometimes y is tht??? hey pls I m not getting senti , I was not in any relationship but tht is wht my frnds shared with me... :-)
To be or not to be .... has always been the question of the life!!
But lets think why actually "botfrnd/girlfrnd" is required??
For boys :
It always to try out their PJs on their grlfrnds forget trying them on you frnds.... yu ll be kicked big time but your gf will enjoy it dearly...
Moreover thinking of investing on frnds they dont remember it, cause dosti main formalities nahin hote,
and yur gf will love it and yu probably will have interests and dividends for it!!!
To prove themselves as superior breed... I ve got a "porsche" what have yu got??
And the list goes on.......
For girls:
No 2 girls have secrets between themselves.So they need a "frodo" so called ring bearer but in right terms "bali ka bakra".
Become a gf and try scrathing a guys ego he ll do anyhting... means anything. Ego has been the sorry reason why boys are weak.
And free main gifts, treat,attention,wishes who wouldnt like it????????
But what about True love.....
I ve have seen almost all the love stories in my college and my statistics say 99 % had been fake.
But yes 1 % still exist and since "umeed pe duniya tiki hai"
And you wont score a goal if you dont take a kick.....
Think positive,Think life, Think Love.
Live Life, Love Life, For Life
Well ppl whats the f*** is this "TRUE LOVE". I think there no such thing exist...every thing is materialistic.Boy search 4 gal so that can flaunt in party circle and also its mostly physical attraction,no emotions attached. I have seen many boys whenever they get involve in any relation,they 1st judge if after spending time with that gal will she provide some fun ;) if no then nxt day relation is over. Is this TRUE LOVE!!
Gals are "Emotional Fools"...they 1st search Sharukh in boys' looks and Vijay Mallya in his wallet. If both are there then there relationship click that too with many conditions attached.
Though it will sound philosphical but TRUE LOVE have no condition attached either emotional or materialistic.
So khao,piyo njy karo per "TRUE LOVE" mat khojna.
Good blog buddy! I bet you posses a good experience, before experiencing the better(bitter actually) half of your life. Girlfriends are like air, you won't realize you need them till you have at least one. On the contrary they are like a P-II computer, you need to get rid of and get a better one. Well, I end with this note
"Yeh baatein jhooti baatein hain, yeh logon ne failaayi hain,
tum aashiqon ka naam na lo, kya saare aashiq saudaai hain!"
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